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Dating a Triathlete

June 1, 2012

My beautiful triathlete relationship

One of my friends recently shared these important dating tips with me.  Source unknown but definitely appreciated for a good laugh!  If you’re dating a triathlete, read on for some insights into what she REALLY means when she says she enjoys quiet walks on the beach or dining out.  If you’re a triathlete, read on and see how much these apply to you.  Luckily, my boyfriend is also a triathlete, so we speak the same language.

“I am an outdoors type of person.” Really means: I train in any type of weather. If it’s raining, snowing, 90 degrees w/100 percent humidity, or winds gusting at 30 mph. I don’t want to hear any complaints because I will still train in it and you’re just a big wuss for complaining about it.

Let’s get DIRTY!

“I enjoy riding my bike.” Really means: with or w/o aero bars, alone or in a peleton, I don’t care. If you can’t do a spur of the moment 30 miler then you’re not my type. I will let you draft, but if you can’t hang and I drop you – I will see you later. I am a capable mechanic, but don’t expect me to change your flats or tune your bike. You need to learn that on your own.

Hot chicks on bikes

 

“I enjoy jogging.” Really means: Let’s run hills until we puke. I have just as many shoes as you only mine are better because they are functional and all look the same.

Post 21 miler

“I enjoy dining out.” Really means: I enjoy eating out, in or anywhere else I can find food. Don’t be shy because with the amount of food I eat, you can have that main entrée instead of a salad and you will still look as though you eat like a rabbit in comparison. Don’t get your limbs too close though as I may take a bite out of you. Most importantly don’t expect any taste off my plate unless you can bring something to the party like more food. Eventually though if you’re not burning 4,000 calories a day your going to plump up and have a terrible complex due to watching me eat deserts and not gain any weight. Friends and family will eventually decide not to dine with us anymore due to my horrid table manners. Oh, and don’t ask me any questions during breakfast, Mid Morning Lunch, Lunch, Afternoon lunch, dinner or Recovery Dinner as it does not lend to efficient food intake.

Mmmmm pizza

“I enjoy quiet walks on the beach.” Really means: Walks on the beach warming up into an 8 mile run and then plunging myself in the ocean for a 2 miler. If you get in my way you’re going to find out what mass start is and let me assure you that you don’t want to find out.

Jeremy’s idea of a date night

“I find fulfillment in charitable work.” Really means: If I am not racing, I am volunteering and I expect you to be there alongside me as I stand out in 90 degree weather for 8 hours handing out sports drink to cyclists going 20 mph. Just stick the ol’ arm out there and hope it doesn’t get taken off.

Chrissie Wellington gives back to CAF

“I enjoy sharing quiet moments together.” Really means: It’s taper time. Just back off because I am strategizing and in a pissy mood because I am worried about my “A” race and can’t workout.

“I am an active person.” Really means: Aside from my 40 hour job, and the 8 mandatory hours of sleep a night, 10 hours a week are devoted to me during the off-season and 20 during race season leaving us 4 hours. 2 of which are spent inhaling food and you not talking to me, so let’s make the best of the 2 hours we will spend together on average each day. If you are a licensed massage therapist or doctor this would make the most optimal use of our time together. Nutritionist is also acceptable, but I probably already know just as much as you.

Post race

“I enjoy road trips and leisurely drives.” Really means: You have your choice of Wisconsin, Idaho, Florida, California, Arizona, and Canada, but don’t expect to do much site seeing. If I get enough support from you we might be able to include Hawaii in there.

A triathlete’s romantic getaway

“I enjoy site seeing.” Really means: Lets grab a mountain bike and get our HR’s up to 90%. There’s plenty of time to look around on the descent as trees and bushes whiz by you at 40 mph.

Taming the BEAST!

“I like stimulating conversation.” Really means: while we are running, we can talk about food. Then we can talk about how we decided what to wear on this run based on the temperature at start time versus the temperature at the time we expect to finish, how horribly out of shape we are, how many miles we did last week, and how many we will do this week and next week. Then we can talk about food.

Happy because I’m eating

“I enjoy relaxing soaks in the tub.” Really Means: I’m going to stop on the way home and buy two bags of ice, throw them in the tub with some water, and sit in this torture chamber for 30 minutes.

Getting in the ice bath

“I’m interested in photography” Really Means: My camera is permanently perched a tripod in front of my trainer. I obsess over taking photos of my bike position and analyzing them to get the perfect setup.

Like this? Or like this?

“I’m into in technology” Really Means: My HRM and bike computer are my best friends. Until you can give me some hard data that can improve my training, don’t bother trying to buddy up to me. You could one day break into the top three if I find you as entertaining on long runs and rides as my mp3 player.

Checking watches before the marathon

In closing, “I enjoy dining out” applies to me the most! Do NOT get in the way of me and my food!!!  Which triathlete dating tip most applies to YOU?  Are there any tips missing?  I think something about assisting with laundry and dishes should be included.  My house is pretty scary around Ironman training time, so a great date will take care of those things for you. 😉

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6 Comments
  1. ha, this is a funny post

  2. I LOVE this post, and I think I’m going to make it mandatory reading for anyone who wants to date me!

    • You should! Might as well let him know what’s in store for him up front!

  3. Love it!
    ‘If you are a licensed massage therapist or doctor this would make the most optimal use of our time together. Nutritionist is also acceptable…’
    I met my now husband through running/triathlon. I’m a dietitian… I’m starting to wonder if he only loves me for my nutritional knowledge!

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